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Old Is what you begin to grow
From the day that you are born
When your heart and brain and body and soul
Get weather worn and torn

And when you are born and begin an age
Which progresses slowly from stage to stage
The memory plays some peculiar tricks
I can remember when I was six!

I can even remember when I was three
Snuggling up on my mother's knee
And being afraid of the man at the door
My father in khaki, returned from the war

I can remember when I was five
The whole world seemed to come alive
Schools with books to read and more
Plenty to learn, things to explore

I can remember when I was eight
And allowed to venture beyond the gate
I taught myself to ride a bike
Two pence an hour to hire when I like

Not for me an immaculate rig!
A "sit up and beg" which was miles too big
The handlebars lowered, the saddle too
I could just reach the pedals with the tip of my shoe

But oh! the joy, the pleasure, the power
Of riding around for two-pence an hour!
I can remember when I was eleven
We moved to a place which I called heaven

Our own little garden, our own patch of grass
And electric light, no more popping gas!
With mantles that disintegrate into dust
At the merest touch if you felt you must

An actual bathroom was in luxury's lap
With running water at the turn of a tap
The old tin bath made a lovely pond
In the long grass down "back of beyond".

I can remember I reached my teens
Skirts got long, what were jeans??
You are growing up, cast off toys
You start looking at boys and boys!

And then of course you learn to dance
And you flirt and you fall for the old romance
Then you meet the one who means more than the rest
He's the kindest most thoughtful most cheerful, the best!

So you marry and give him a beautiful son
But the next thing you know there's a war going on
Through the hardships, and shortages, terrors and pain
We strove to survive and live once again

And thankfully adding more to our joys
We proudly produced three more lovely boys
I'm proud of my family, my love too must be
As he looks down from above on his family tree

All this I've remembered since I was alive
Not a bad feat for an old seventy five!
Yes memory plays the ironical trick
Now where did I put that darned walking stick?

I can't look for that till my glasses I find
Shall I call for help, but no, never mind
I wouldn't hear anyway what they said
My hearing aid's dropped, it's under the bed

Sit down quietly before you look
Then sit down again with your Puzzle Book
My Puzzle book helps to keep me sane
Thank the Lord I still have a brain!

I'm just a leaf on Life's tree going brown
Withered and waiting to flutter down
And when I do will that be the end?
Or will I be lucky and find a lost friend?

Old age is lonely when your friends are gone
Sometimes I wonder why I linger on
Have you ever felt lonely when in a crowd?
You can't hear what's said, you sit with head bowed

Sometimes not a word, not even a look
It's no wonder I love my Puzzle Book!


A gentleman is someone you may meet,
as you are walking down the street,
he may doff his hat, or open a door,
nothing less - nothing more,
Polite, well mannered, you may say,
not so many about today!

But gentle man, something apart!
His feelings come straight from the heart!
He cares for you, he shares your pain,
your worries, your troubles, he relieves again.
There's nothing that he would not do,
to help you cope, to see you through.

I was fortunate to meet such two,
the first I married and was happy
until the Lord decided it was his will
to release my love from all his pain,
but transferred it to me, and put my heart in pain,
my family supported, and helped me through

And then, by God's grace, I met number two.
He has been through the same heart break!
He knew how hard it was to take!
We consoled each other and were happy again,
he was so good and kind, at everyone's call,
always ready to help one and all.

Now he has left me, I'm there once again,
With a heart that is full and aching with pain.
I've written all this in the hope that you can
Understand the meaning of a real "Gentleman".


I have a little jardinière,
which I thought looked quite good.
My friend admired it, and
she said she'd get one if she could.
My mate and I went
round the town and
searched most everywhere.
We'd given up hope, when
Suddenly, there was the
Jardinière!

We brought it home,
We took it in,
She thought it was divine,
but then she got right up my nose,
she said it was better than mine!
She's lovely, but you can go off folk,
Of this I'll swear.
Especially when they look down their nose,
at my little Jardinière


It's nice to see friends wherever you go
Who say "how are you?", "Good day" or "Hello"
It can help you through a lonely day
To be able to answer whatever they say.

It matters not if they don't really care,
At least it's given you a chance to share
a few words here
and a few words there.

But a real true friend is someone who will share
all your troubles, help see you through,
Keep you company when you're feeling sad,
when nothing seems right everything's bad.

Friends you confide in, and know that they hear.
Who give a sympathetic ear.
Cheer you up, when you feel blue.
Without them, I don't know what I would do!

Bang my head on the wall,
Who knows? - just depends!
So all I can say is just
"Thank you, my friends!!"


Life is a journey, travel it well
Maybe short, maybe long;
One never can tell!
So while you are living,
Do the best you can
To help all the suffering;
Woman or man.
And when your time comes,
You can go with pride,
Say, "Thanks Lord for the journey,
Thanks for the ride!"
No-on knows for certain what lies up above,
So spend your life spreading
friendship and love!
 

These are some of the poems that my mother Winifred Trow wrote from 1976 to date. She used to live at 25 Delrene Road Shirley until she and Jack moved to Adelaide, Australia. They returned in 1978 and since then lived in Rugby and Nuneaton. I have no other motives other than to portray my mother and her skills for what they are.
Winifred Kathleen Trow was born 4th May 1915, in Acocks Green. She worked at Eagle Transfers in Sparkhill, Bham,
then later  with her sister Bet, and Bella at the Post Office Training School canteen in Cranmore Boulevard, Shirley.

Winifred emigrated to Australia in 1967 but later returned to England and settled in Rugby. After the death of my father, Jack, in March 1983. She moved to Nuneaton where she was quite a character, always with a readiness to help a friend.

Mom's biggest dream was to be with all of her sons in one place which we managed to do last year, with all of her UK grandchildren and their partners. We had my brother Roger and his wife Mary here from the Dubai, Mike and Sonia from Adelaide, and of course John and Sue, it was a fantastic couple of days and made Mom so happy.

Mom was never a saint but had a heart of gold and is missed by all, enormously. This tribute is most appropriate.

David and Ann Trow
Email David.Trow@btinternet.com

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